Broken Hearts

This post is semi-dedicated to someone. . .someone(s).

It's not too contreversial, but then again, maybe it is.


Are you the type who falls in love? Deeply into a relentless love. Then you give and give to the relationship. You want it to work, you want it to thrive and grown into a beautiful melodious sensation of butterflies with wingspans the size of an eagles. You let the person you love walk all over you and they use you, and act as though you'll never leave. You've given up so much for them. Even when the one you are in love with forgets about you, or leads you on, you still are at their beckon call, waiting for then to take you in their arms and say, it's finally forever, that you never have to worry anymore.

Or are you the type who likes someone? Some sort of love. Yet, you have tried time and time again to feel more for the other person. Still, you can't you only look at them through a friends eyes. You will get lonely, or sad, even tired, and the other person is always there. Pushing for you to llove them, ut you can't. It's not that you refuse, but really, you just can't. You have given that person chance after chance, but they won't except that it isn't going to happen. You realize they have given up so much for you, but you never asked them to, so you can't feel bad for it. You just can't.

What if these people were together. Kind of together. One person feeling one set of these feelings, the other feeling the latter. What do you do when you see this? You love these people, both of them with every ounce of your heart. do you say the first is stupid for going back to the other? Do you say that the second is playing with the emotions of the first? Or do you sit back and say that God will do with it what he can in his own will and time?

I guess my question is. . .what do you do, when you want to help, but you know that there is absolutley nothing you can do to rectify any of the situations?

Do you help?

Or do you leave it alone? And go on thinking that they will both be the very death of you? haha..ok, no haha, seriously.

Minscual Christian Disagreement Part 2

This is just another thing that I have noticed.

In the Bible, it says that thou shall not wear what pertaineth to a man and vice versa.

My question (without giving my religious preference) is that, if a woman walks into a department store and purchases a pare of woman's pants or jeans of sometime, is she breaking the word? Is she really disobeying the Lord? I mean she's NOT wearing guys clothes, or anything that pertains to a man?

Minscual Christian Debates

This is one argument that has been battled through the religious ages:A womans hair. In the Bible it says that a woman's hair is her glory. Yet, if it is our glory, then why does it drive some of us crazy?When it says that a woman's hari is her glory, does it mean that is HAS to be long? What if my hair is haning down to the back of my knees, the ends are brittle and dead, and it is so heavy and thick that it cause severe headaches? Is it my glory then? What if it is trimmed or cut into a certain style, or a color or shade that I like, and I finally appriciate what has grown out of my scalp? Is it my glory then? Doesn't it depend on someone's personal defnition of glory?

The Right Thing

In my short time, I have seen alot of wrong in the church. I am not one to judge others actions, but I do believe that some of these things aren't necessarily right.For instance, there is a church, where when many people drive by, quite more than often, they see one or two teenage couples on the churches front porch with their hands on each other. Hands on hips and backsides, lips pressed against one another's and on the other's necks and something that is simply repulsive to see in front of a church building. The girls are dressed scantily and their "boyfriends" don't seem to mind.It has been said that in this church, this is only one of the large problems with these couples. The girls ar said to be wearing attire that makes their chest and legs quite visible. And the boys of wearing street clothing to services.It is to the point where there are parents, patrons and elders, not letting their young children, both boys and girls, come to church. They are not allowed to attend Sunday School, Sunday's or Wednesday services, even Youth Choir Practices. In the Bible, it says that the church must take care of it's own. It is Biblical that if a disruption or uprising in the church, it is the churches reponsibility to take it out. It may be Biblical, but it sure won't be easy. So how does someone go about this? Should you take time to see if it changes?What happens when they say "Well, they need to be led to Christ? They need to stay in church!"? How do you do what is so difficult, but it is said that it has to be done in the Word?

Regrets

So. . .I have always thought this way. It kinda goes against the Christian system.

Regrets never materialize.

Regretting things or situations is a waste of time. They aren't really real.

Whatever it was that you did, at that point in time, you wanted to do it. It was what you felt had to be done for whatever reason.

I don't know, I guess some could call it the devil working with guilt because you wanted what ever it was at that time. Now, that you are trying to be forgiven, you "regret" it.

Help me out.

Are regrets real??