This post is semi-dedicated to someone. . .someone(s).
It's not too contreversial, but then again, maybe it is.
Are you the type who falls in love? Deeply into a relentless love. Then you give and give to the relationship. You want it to work, you want it to thrive and grown into a beautiful melodious sensation of butterflies with wingspans the size of an eagles. You let the person you love walk all over you and they use you, and act as though you'll never leave. You've given up so much for them. Even when the one you are in love with forgets about you, or leads you on, you still are at their beckon call, waiting for then to take you in their arms and say, it's finally forever, that you never have to worry anymore.
Or are you the type who likes someone? Some sort of love. Yet, you have tried time and time again to feel more for the other person. Still, you can't you only look at them through a friends eyes. You will get lonely, or sad, even tired, and the other person is always there. Pushing for you to llove them, ut you can't. It's not that you refuse, but really, you just can't. You have given that person chance after chance, but they won't except that it isn't going to happen. You realize they have given up so much for you, but you never asked them to, so you can't feel bad for it. You just can't.
What if these people were together. Kind of together. One person feeling one set of these feelings, the other feeling the latter. What do you do when you see this? You love these people, both of them with every ounce of your heart. do you say the first is stupid for going back to the other? Do you say that the second is playing with the emotions of the first? Or do you sit back and say that God will do with it what he can in his own will and time?
I guess my question is. . .what do you do, when you want to help, but you know that there is absolutley nothing you can do to rectify any of the situations?
Do you help?
Or do you leave it alone? And go on thinking that they will both be the very death of you? haha..ok, no haha, seriously.
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2 comments:
I agree, you see, some people can't determne whether they should be in love or not, and they let the hurt and pain rub off to others. Itstinks!
Sometimes a person does not sincerely understand their actions. Sometimes they either do not realize what they are doing, or they don't realize how it looks. I think that in some situations like this someone should go to them. If they don't accept simply talking to them, sometimes they may need to just be TOLD what's going on. Talking behind someone's back about a problem is not going to solve the problem. Tell them. Tell them what their doing, how it looks, what it's making others think about them. Maybe, just maybe, their unconscious of what's going on and maybe they want to change.
I agree with Ricki, too. Sometimes in the situation KDD wrote about, a person doesn't know if it's right, or is afraid, to be in love. It's hard to find that fine line of being romantic and sincerely in love. And when one may feel the romance, that person may want to be extra careful so as to not hurt the other person by giving them a false hope. It's so hard when someone tells you how much they love you then snatch it away because they decided either it wasn't there anymore or they misinterpreted their feelings from the beginning. There are worse scenarios, but those are just examples.
As far as what to do, I'd say the best thing to do is go to the ones involved if you're close to them. And pray for them, constantly. Perhaps one is blind to their actions after all. Or maybe there are things that neither (or one or the other) is sharing. You never know.
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